Wednesday, 22 October 2014

About Sexuality: What's Casual About Casual Sex?

If you can't see this email, click here

About

Sexuality

Sex Tips

Sex Talk

Sex Toys



From Cory Silverberg, your Guide to Sexuality

Two people who don't know each hook up and have sex.  In the moment, both people consider the sex they're having to be casual sex.  Sometime after the sex,  one of them identifies it as something else, something more or less,.  Was the sex still casual sex?  Who gets to define what is and isn't casual sex?  For that matter, is sex ever really casual?

If by casual we mean by chance or without design or premeditation, have you ever had sex that you absolutely didn't want or plan ahead of time?  If by casual we mean lack of interest, wouldn't that define a lot of sex people have in committed relationships?  Can you have casual sex with someone you've had non-casual sex with?  Is it possible to make a meaningful statement about casual sex and not just end every sentence with an annoying question mark?  Read on and find out.  ~  Cory

 

Searching for Meaning in Casual Sex

How do researchers define casual sex?  How do you define it?

 

 

Search Related Topics:  sex definitions 

Sex Research Confuses Casual Sex with Causal Se

Overzealous researchers hoping to prove that casual sex leads to depression, suicide, and bad oral hygiene* take too many leaps in a study published in the Journal of Sex Research. 

 

*I made up that oral hygiene part…but the rest is true.

Search Related Topics:  sex research  casual sex  adolescent sexuality

Understanding What Hookup Culture Is and Is Not
Sex panics come and sex panics go.  Our most recent panic is about so-called hookup culture.  A sociology professor decided to stop reading the newspaper and start asking questions.

 

Search Related Topics:  sex research  casual sex  hooking up

Sex Tip - Making Sex Communication Casual
There's one element of sex that I wish we were all more casual about;  talking about sex.  Honest conversations about sex can feel difficult or awkward in part because they are so rare.  My life is made much easier by the fact that I talk about sex every day.  I talk about sex with family, with partners, with co-workers, and this means that when I have to bring up a sexual concern or want to make a sexual request, it feels less out of character or out of bounds.  This week's sex tip is all about making sex an okay topic for daily conversation. 

 

Search Related Topics:  sex tips  sexual communication 


Related Searches
    Featured Articles
    Follow Me on Twitter!
    Reader's Respond:How Important Is Sex
    9 Weeks to Better Sex
    Sexuality E-Course: Weekly Sex Position
    Sex Tip: Stop Having Sex in the Dark
    Sex from A to Z:Sex Hangups

     

    More from About.com

    Sign-up for Shareables!
    An every-morning rundown of the day in history, headlines and trends produced by your pals at About.com. Please sign up it's free (of course), we think you will like it!



    Want More From About.com
    Check out our social page tailored to your interest!




    This newsletter is written by:
    Cory Silverberg
    Sexuality Guide
    Email Me | My Blog | My Forum
     
    Sign up for more free newsletters on your favorite topics
    You are receiving this newsletter because you subscribed to the About.com Sexuality newsletter. If you wish to change your email address or unsubscribe, please click here. If you would like to unsubscribe from all newsletters sent from About.com, please send an email to optout@about.com with "Unsubscribe" as the subject line.

    About.com respects your privacy: Our Privacy Policy

    Contact Information:
    1500 Broadway, 6th Floor
    New York, NY, 10036

    © 2014 About.com
     


    Must Reads
    How to Have Sex
    All About Orgasms
    The Joys of Toys
    Sex Positions for All
    10 Ways to Screw Up Your Sex Life
     
    Follow me on:
    Facebook Twitter

    Advertisement

    No comments:

    Post a Comment