Wednesday, 15 April 2015

On Helping and Being Helped With Sex

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On Helping and Being Helped With Sex
Aside from the emails I get telling me I don't know what I'm talking about (less common than I expect) and the emails from people who like to make fun of my hair (more common than I could have ever imagined), the two kinds of emails I get the most are from folks either looking for some kind of sexual help, or looking to become a sexual helper.  In both cases, I'm struck by how hard it is for people who don't already work in sex, to know where to start.  

I shouldn't be surprised by this. In my experience most of us aren't clear on the differences between a psychiatrist, a psychologist, and a therapist.  Throw a sexual specialty into the mix and it's something we talk about even less in school, in the media, and in our homes.  So I began to write about sex professions.  I'm not completely satisfied with this distinction between sex professions that "help" and those that don't (I have spoken to many people who say that they learned more and felt more supported in experiences where they paid for sex than they did going to a sex therapist) but it's reasonable to identify those jobs that are explicitly about helping others, and doing so shouldn't deny the reality that there are all sorts of ways of getting and giving help, and not all of them mesh with the laws and practices of every community.

So whether you're looking for information or support, or a career change, I hope you'll find something in this week's newsletter that you didn't already know.  ~  Cory
Cory Silverberg
Sexuality Expert
Sexuality Helping Professions
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